How to Get the Girlfriend You Want?

Alright, let’s talk real: getting the girlfriend you want isn’t about tricks, lines, or pretending to be someone else—it’s about becoming the version of yourself that naturally attracts her and builds a connection that’s real and lasting.

I’ve noticed something in my life often is that women don’t usually settle as much as a guy will for their partner. No disrespect, women are particular about attitudes and behavior. This is why the number one thing to do first is to get clear about who you are so you can know who you want to be your partner. If you don’t know yourself, you don’t know who to look for!

Before we go any farther, you will want to take a listen to the insight here: “how to turn a girl into you girlfriend with one simple move”

Here is some guidance on how to do it—with heart, confidence, and intention:

Get Clear on What You Actually Want

Before you can attract her, you need to know who she is:

What values matter to you?
Do you want playful or deep? Adventurous or grounded?
How do you want to feel around her?

Clarity = power. Without it, you’ll chase vibes that aren’t right for you.

Become the Type of Person She’s Drawn To

This isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about leveling up into your best self.

Confidence (real confidence—not cocky, but grounded)
Purpose (you’re building something in your life)
Emotional maturity (you can handle conflict, express yourself, stay calm)
A vibe of “I’m good on my own, but I’d love to share this with someone”

You attract who you are ready for. That’s facts.

Now that we’ve established the outline of getting clear and what type of person each other needs now you can get into the easier stuff like flirting and eye contact, just joking this is not always the easiest part, just check what Bobby says here >